Compassion and Growth |
Wednesday May 30 2007
Bio
My sister reminded me last night that it’s gardening season. “The next three weeks are for planting,” she said. And that was it. For her, the next three weeks of her work life will be determined by her definition of this part of the growing season. Purchasing young seedlings, transplanting older plants, making last minute preparations of the garden beds, placing vital nutrients around plant roots. Working the soil and planting things.
I was struck by the sweet irony of life.
In the midst of this season of new beginnings, some of my older women friends are facing mid-life and end-of-life challenges. Seasons ago, they ‘planted’ themselves in particular locations, lifestyles and ways of thinking about things. And now the challenges they face are like none they have experienced before. In a way, they are being offered opportunities to let go, to ‘re-plant’ themselves, to transform their experience of life. Some are suffering with their circumstances. Others surrendering. No matter what they are choosing, they are all growing as human beings.
It is their choice as to how they grow.
In the past, I would have tried to control their choices out of my fear for their future. But I have transplanted myself from the wasting bed of fear into the garden of love. I stand in the place of compassion today and acknowledge their struggles and their courage.
It’s been said that without darkness, we would not be aware of light. Without sadness, we would have no gratitude for happiness. Without suffering, no appreciation for serenity.
I think that, without compassion, we would have no awareness of growth.
Written by eldering at Learning
Tagged with: choice compassion gardening growth surrender
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