 By Jim Selman | Bio
There is an old
joke that says, “Sex after 60 is better than ever, but the mounting and
dismounting aren’t so pretty.” If you’re laughing, you know what I’m
talking about. If not, you’re still young enough to have something to
look forward to. I attended a conference recently featuring Steve Pavlina,
the number one blogger on personal development. The topic was about
expanding traffic to your blog and one of his ideas was to write about
something ‘timeless’, something that lots of people have in common and
that breaks the mold of everyone’s expectations. Well, my writing has
been about transforming our notions of growing older and to encourage
intergenerational dialogue, so what better topic to muse on than SEX.[ Read More]
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By Shae Hadden
According to Dr. David Suzuki, “it is not
progress to use up the rightful legacy of our children and
grandchildren.” He opened the first Elders and the Environment Forum
on Monday in Vancouver, Canada with a keynote address that focused on
the role of elders in the environmental movement and how we can make a
difference:[ Read More]
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 By Jim Selman | Bio
There is nothing new about ageism, other than
the fact that there are increasing numbers of people growing older
(which means increasing numbers of examples of age discrimination
against older people). The latest statistics from AARP show formal
anti-discrimination complaints are up roughly 30% in the workplace. I
had some fun with this in my recent blog, proposing we create the
National Organization of Pissed-Off Elders (N.O.P.E.). However, it
isn’t a laughing matter when we see a potentially tragic problem
growing in our society that can be prevented.[ Read More]
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By Jim Selman | Bio
I
want to create a new organization to stamp out stupidity and
indifference and restore common decency and goodwill into society. I
think I'll call it the National Organization of Pissed-Off Elders
(N.O.P.E.).
What’s pissing us off?
A lot more than just ‘aging’ issues like Social Security, pharmaceuticals and our sex lives.[ Read More]
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 By Kevin Brown | Bio
Today is ‘Family Day’, a public holiday in
the Canadian provinces of Alberta, Manitoba, Ontario, and
Saskatchewan. It is also celebrated in South Africa, in the Australian
Capital Territory, in the state of Arizona in the U.S., and in the
Republic of Vanuatu in the South Pacific. In Alberta where I live, ‘Family Day’ was declared to recognize the values[ Read More]
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By Jim Selman | Bio
I have had several conversations with friends
in Buenos Aires about how people deal with their financial security in
their older years. To my surprise, the uniform answer is that they
mostly don’t. Then I hear a story which, by my naïve North American
standards is shocking, but whhich reveals something important for all
of us as we contemplate our own future and worry about the
uncertainties in the financial markets. The story goes like this.[ Read More]
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By Juanita Brown, David Isaacs and Samantha Tan | World Cafe website Read the first post in this series.
What Are We Learning?
At the Shambhala Institute and in
subsequent gatherings exploring multi-generational partnership, we have
experienced a similar outpouring of excitement and engagement. Key
multi-generational dialogues aimed at building bridges between the
generations have now been sponsored by Pegasus Communications at their
international Systems Thinking in Action conferences, by the Institute
for Noetic Sciences, the Bali Institute for Global Renewal, Meditation
Mount and the Ojai Foundation, the World Café, and others. In 2005,
[ Read More]
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By Jim Selman | Bio
One
of the central tenets of my work is that everything happens in a
context of relationship—a shared background of concerns, commitments
and practices—what I call a background of relatedness. We may make
commitments as individuals, but we always fulfill them in networks of
relationships with other people. The other day I was asking,
“What does it mean for an economy to collapse?” What is the worst-case
scenario of the current ‘meltdown’ and ‘freezing of credit’?
(Interesting that these two most frequently used metaphors, extremes of
‘hot’ and ‘cold’ are referring to the same thing and both are ‘state’
changes.) My conclusion is that...[ Read More]
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The Science Daily reports that cultural expectations impact the benefits of intergenerational support. Intergenerational Support and Depression Among Elders in Rural China: Do Daughters-In-Law Matter?, a study published in the July 2008 Journal of Marriage and Family,
stated that in the province of Anhui in rural China, assistance from
daughters-in-law with household chores and personal care created fewer
depressive symptoms in elders than that offered by sons and daughters.
The report's authors, Dr. Zhen Cong and Professor Merrill Silverstein
of the USC Davis School of Gerontology, found this was most evident in
situations where daughters-in-law co-resided with their husband's
parents. In traditional rural Chinese society, the efforts of a son's
wife are seen and accepted as meaningful contributions. Almost
two-thirds of China's older population lives in rural areas, making it
the largest concentration of elders in the world. Considering that
Chinese society is changing, elders will be disadvantaged if they don't
adjust their expectations about the appropriateness of support from
their children.
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 By Jim Selman | Bio
A long time ago (in the late 60s I think). I read a book by John Gerassi called The Boys of Boise, Furor, Vice and Folly in an American City.
Basically, it was a shocking journalistic reporting of how a city’s
fears can create a kind of mass paranoia. Boise, Idaho isn’t quite the
Wild West, but to this day it has a kind of ‘cowboy’ feeling about it.
In the 1960s, same-sex anything (other than drinking and football) was
something that just didn’t happen. You’d rather be a Red than Gay in
those days—long before “Brokeback Mountain”. The book chronicles what
happens when Time magazine reports that Boise is a mecca for
homosexuals in America. The bottom line is that anyone and everyone was
a suspect, the City hired a Gestapo-type investigator, and
McCarthy-like prosecutions followed. If you want the details, get the
book. I am reminded of this because to my shock and dismay, I
read recently that child protection measures in the UK will be expanded
with the implementation in 2009 of the Independent Safeguarding Authority, which will increase the number of adults to be vetted by the criminal justice system to 11 million.[ Read More]
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