By Shae Hadden
In every moment, all possibilities are happening:
- birth, rebirth, death
- love, fear
- war, peace
- compassion, hate
- trust, distrust ...
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There are innumerable expert opinions available these days about
solutions to our current economic crisis. But are those solutions just
band-aid solutions? How did we get here? What is money at its root? What are the problems with interest? Money As Debt offers a different perspective on
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By Jim Selman | Bio
We’ve all experienced a situation—whether in
a marriage, friendship or business relationship—where we find ourselves
thinking about the other person and saying, “I love you, BUT…”. It’s in
that moment we realize a particular behavior of theirs is not
acceptable to us and has become a source of stress and resentment. For
many, resentment almost always leads to a downward spiral of
self-destructive behavior and the eventual destruction of the
relationship. I was coaching a friend recently who is in such a dilemma.[ Read More]
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By Jim Selman | Bio
Yesterday
I received yet another of those ‘big lettered’ alarms about how
appalled someone or another is about some left-wing motivated travesty
against America, our troops and/or God. This one was about how the
words “So Help Me God” were intentionally deleted from Roosevelt’s ‘Day
of Infamy’ inscription on his Memorial in Washington D.C. About 30
seconds on Google and the facts are that this “eRumor”
is just plain wrong. I sent the facts upstream to the long mailing list
shown in the email forwarded to me. Somehow I doubt it will be passed on as eagerly as the original message was passed on to me. This type of activity has
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Earlier this month, the NY Times
reported that researchers are now looking into the possible benefits of
older people joining social networks. With one third of people over 75
living alone (according to a 2009 AARP study), the National Institute
on Aging will be awarding $10 million in grants to explore "social
neuroscience and its effect on aging". According to comScore, a media
measurement company, more and more older people are visiting social
networks to connect with others. The Internet allows us to stay engaged
and stimulated, connect with new and old friends, and play games with
others, and research will now focus on whether conducting these
activities within virtual networks can provide us with the same health
and wellness benefits as interacting with a group of offline friends.[ Read More]
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The Federal Trade Commission is warning consumers to be aware of
charity fraud. Legitimate charities use direct mail, telemarketing and
email campaigns to raise funds; unfortunately, scam artists do too. If
someone asks you for money on behalf of a charity, take time to:[ Read More]
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By Jim Selman | Bio
For
no particular reason, today I am more conscious than normal of my
‘little voice’—you know the conversation in our heads. I talk about
this phenomenon a lot in my work. People laugh when I challenge the
conventional view that they can control it: “Try to turn it off” or
“Don’t think about what I am about to say”. Then I suggest that this
conversation we are always having, what we call thinking, is in fact an
endless stream of thoughts that may or may not be related to what’s
going on and further, that this ‘voice’ is not ‘me’. This voice, like
breathing, is an aspect of who we are but is definitely not the ‘I’
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By Kevin Brown | Bio
I was preparing my mother-in-law's Canadian
tax return this week for net-filing, a service I have provided for the
past six years. For those of you who have used a software tax package,
you will know that 'net-filing' a return is an online submission direct
to the Canada Revenue Agency. Her return is very basic, really just
accounting for her Old Age Security benefit and Canada Pension. Since
she retired, she has never received a refund and never has had to make
a payment. So this should have been relatively easy. Ah, but not so!
This time, when I attempted to obtain the 4 digit access code that
would allow me to file online, the online connection to the CRA would
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By Kevin Brown | Bio
It
seems that no matter where I turn these days, the search for happiness
seems to be on many people’s mind. Perhaps during this time of economic
turmoil, people are reconsidering the happiness quotient they
attributed to possessions and financial security. In the Telegraph of
London, Richard Gray and Alastair Jamieson report that “Psychologists
have found that people who spend their money on simple experiences such
as going to the theatre, dining out or taking adventure holidays tend
to be happier than those who buy possessions, regardless of how much
they spend.”[ Read More]
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By Jim Selman | Bio
I saw the movie Elegy last night
starring Sir Ben Kingsley and Penèlope Cruz. It was an exceptionally
intense love story between a man and a much younger woman. He is a
professor and she his student. What begins for him as a casual romp is
true love for her and soon he too is in love, but is tortured and
insecure because of their age difference. Patricia Clarkson is his
stable ‘partner/wife’ who has her own career, is exceptionally
independent and makes no demands. When she learns of the affair, she
leaves him to deal with his demons and his dreams. The acting is great, although[ Read More]
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