Healing in Dying |
Wednesday Apr 18 2007
The most joyful person I have ever met was a young man dying of AIDS. Chris’s path to serenity had been long and difficult.
In the early 1990s, his family, afraid of their community's reaction to his gay lifestyle, rejected him. He moved from central Canada to Vancouver, developed a family of choice, and lived with a partner committed to a life-long relationship. But his partner and many of his friends died of AIDS. Then his place of employment found out the reason for his many absences for sick leave, and he was fired on the spot. Later, life-threatening infections kept him in hospital, too weak to care for himself. When I knew him, he understood that there was no hope for a cure or prolongation of his life. Medicine could do nothing beyond keeping him comfortable, and he was facing his imminent death.[Read More]