By Elizabeth Brown
- We’ve
already experienced what works and doesn’t work for us regarding sex.
And now we know it is about passion, trust and playfulness…and an
expressed intimacy.
- Sex becomes a sacred expression of our body
and our soul. It takes maturity to know the two bring a satisfaction
unsurpassed in being fully expressed and joyful.
- We listen, with pleasure, from a desire to know and satisfy our partner.
- It
is easier to be playful and open to new opportunities. Now, with the
wisdom of life, we are completely and desirably vulnerable to each
other.
- Touching and exploring become the path to a deeper
awareness of each other. Touching nurtures and heals. Exploring opens
gates to sharing new found sensual and sacred intimacy.
- Our
bodies always remember when we were the most sexually expressed. So we
can be 80 and still have the sexual expression of being 40. This is the
time for patience and playfulness.
- As an Elder, we’ve learned how to love loving and we know it is the beautiful dance of life.
© 2010 Elizabeth Brown. All rights reserved.
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By Adrienne Sharp The
world is operating on a huge misconception that excessive garbage,
extensive use of fossil fuels and other forms of pollution are causing
global warming. I have discovered the true cause of global warming:
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By Irene Noble
My mother, my friend,
died when she was 91. I miss her still, yet it was eighteen years ago.
She was a beautiful, elegant, stylish lady. More than that, she was
forgiving, uncomplicated by her total honesty, always willing to learn
new ways, new directions even though it might require a reversal of old
assumptions.[ Read More]
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By Eliezer Sobel | Website
There is much talk on Serene Ambition and
elsewhere about altering one’s perspective and internal conversation
about aging so as to “create a future to live into” that infuses the
present with passion and energy, as distinct from the dreary
resignation of merely playing out the repetitive and predictable habits
and tendencies generated by the past. And yet, while this sounds
good in theory, what of the physical limitations imposed by age? [ Read More]
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By Lilly Page
As I continue to follow my passion, helping people ‘feel’ beautiful,
I’ve come to notice that beauty and self-image are one and the same.
The journey to real beauty is an interesting path of self-appreciation. Many
women and men ask for my help to ‘look’ more beautiful. These
individuals have often felt a prompting to change their behavior, even
more so than their look. They are beginning to see the possibilities in
themselves and just need a little encouragement to ‘be’ themselves, to
fully express who they are. Whether they receive an image make-over as
a gift or whether they ‘gift’ themselves, the inspiration usually comes
from a desire to discover their own inner beauty (as well as maximize
what they’ve been given).[ Read More]
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By Lilly Page
I was watching Oprah recently, a program featuring a few of our
famous stars speaking on aging. They were talking about this whole idea
of what your real age is. One was only 50, so just a baby to
me, the other was 65 and didn’t look more than 55, but the one that
caught my eye was Diahann Carol at 71 years old. Yikes, she looked
fabulous!!!! I
have always been one to mention my age, as I have always enjoyed
getting older. I intentionally want to give people younger than I am
something to look forward to. So I share my journey with them, whenever
it’s appropriate.
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By Dr. Anne Marie Evers
I was having lunch with my friend Lori and her sister Carol, whom I
had not met before, last week. We’re all about the same age, and our
conversation started out very pleasantly. Then after a while, Carol
started expounding in a monotone voice about how terrible it was to be
getting older and how she absolutely hated the aging process. She
talked for 45 minutes in great detail about her aches and pains, her
failing eyesight and hearing, and her husband’s lack of interest in her
sexually. She concluded that she probably could not attract men any
more.I finally got to ask her if she was happy. She replied, “Happy,
how could you ask such a question? I used to be the prettiest girl in
my class and now look at me. I’m 68, a disaster and over the hill.” I
realized that, even though we’re the same age, my perspective on aging
at least allows me to be happy. I think that’s because I believe getting older is about getting better. [ Read More]
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